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With the publication of Intimacy & Desire: Awaken the Passion in Your Relationship, the newest research in interpersonal neurobiology and brain-change psychotherapy is included.

Whether you’re on the verge of divorce, or want to make a good relationship better, there’s hope and opportunity. You’ve come to the home of adult solutions that really work! We are the leaders in differentiation-based couples therapy.


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